How to know if you’re out of balance

And what to do about it!

How to know if you're out of balance and what to do about it! Jen Merkel Holistic Hypnosis and Wellness

Why is balance important?

When a person is in balance, they have better control of their emotions, are more calm, and generally happier.

The Universal Law of Balance says that If we have too much of one thing, we do not have enough of another. When the scales are tipped too much to one side, the other side will suffer.

Getting back into balance is a form of self-care.

Signs you are out of balance

Are you experiencing any of these indications of imbalance?

  • Illness, fatigue, just generally feeling “out of sorts”
  • Low motivation
  • Dizziness, clumsiness, tripping over “nothing”, dropping things
  • “Checking out” – not caring
  • Insomnia, excessive mind chatter
  • Migraines or chronic headaches
  • No time for socializing
  • Feeling like you’re losing control of your life
  • Snapping at people, short tempered

If you have a medical condition, seek the care of a health professional. The information in this article is not intended to be, nor should it be considered as medical advice.

How to know if you're out of balance and what to do about it! Jen Merkel Holistic Hypnosis and Wellness

Here’s how to bring yourself back into balance


Having self-awareness that you are out of alignment is the first step – but it’s also important to stay mindful and do a self check-in throughout the process.


Dedicate some time to analyzing the areas of your life that are out of balance, and write them down along with their counterparts. For example:

too much work = not enough fun
too much reality = not enough mystery
too much order = not enough creativity
too much giving = not enough receiving
too much clarity = not enough dreaming
too much intensity = not enough frivolity
too much predictability = not enough spontaneity
↔ This goes both ways! ↔

You may opt to put your list up as a self-reminder, or include your thoughts in a journal. Either way, putting the information on paper turns a thought or idea into something tangible, bringing it to life.


Now that you know the areas you need to focus on, take some time to think about how you can bring more of what you’re lacking into your life. You may have to get creative a bit, but don’t let your fears keep you from breaking outside the box.

Take deliberate action

Now that you have a plan, put it into fruition. The most important thing to keep in mind is to be deliberate about it. When we’re out of balance, it’s often because we are on “coast”. Being deliberate about being balanced is going to be crucial.

Lather, rinse, repeat

Being out of balance is a chronic situation. You’ll have to keep repeating the process, and as time goes on you may find that you become imbalanced in different ways than you had in the past.

I recommend setting a reminder on your calendar based on a timeline that works for you. I personally use the solstices and equinoxes to re-evaluate my own balance level. Because these days align with the change of seasons and the astrological calendar, their timing is perfect for making self-care adjustments.

If you think you might need to do this more often, you could make it part of your new moon manifesting ritual. Or do your self-check during one of the quarter moons when it is perfectly balanced between light and dark.

How to know if you’re out of balance and what to do about it!

As a Certified Hypnosis Practitioner, I help people train their brain to think differently so they can break old, unwanted patterns. Book your free consultation and assessment online.

Jen Merkel Holistic Hypnosis and Wellness

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